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How to Let Her Down Gently

Anyone who spends a lot of time hooking up is going to come across that one girl who wants more at some point. It doesn’t matter how obvious it is that you’re just after a hook up. She’s going to want a relationship and you’re going to have a find a way to let her down. You don’t want to get stuck with one person. That’s why you’re hooking up in the first place. If you want to let her down gently then you just have to touch on two main points and it will work out.

Tell her she’s great

It doesn’t matter if you think she’s great or not. You just have to tell her that is. You have to make her believe it. Pick out some of the parts of her personality that you can tell she likes. Make sure you focus on those things as reasons that she’s so great. She already likes them about herself, so you’re just giving her information that she already believes. You won’t have to go out your way to convince her of it. After you do that and build her up, you can move on to the next part.

 Tell Her You’re Terrible

After you spend the proper amount of time building her up, all you have to do now is tear yourself down. Tell her all of the reasons that you’d make a terrible boyfriend. Make sure you focus on the fact that you’d end up cheating on her. Make sure she understands that you can’t keep yourself to one woman. You’ll end up doing something wrong and hurting her and you just can’t deal with that. If she still doesn’t get the hint after all of this, just go ahead and hook up with someone else. She’ll have no option but to move on after that.

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How to Get the Most out of Your Hook Up

You can hook up all you want, but if it’s not satisfying then it’s not going to count for much. If you want your hook ups to be as satisfying as possible then you have to get the most out of them. That means looking at them as more than just chances to have sex. You can have any kind of sex that you want as long as you know how to make it happen. It’s all about talking to the person you’re hooking up with to get them to give it their all.

Talk about her fantasies

If you want to get them you have to give. The best thing that you can do is talk to your hook up about her fantasies. You want to get her to open up as much as possible so you can really give them to her. You don’t have to make all of her fantasies come true, but you should give her a hook up that’s just as satisfying as the one that you want to have. If you can give her some fantasies then she’ll be more than happy to give you some of yours.

Talk about what you want

That also means that you’re going to tell her what you want. It always makes sense to talk about your fantasies and fetishes before you hook up. That way, you’ll be able to get it all out before you actually hook up. You’ll know what she’s comfortable with and what you can’t get from her. If there’s still something that you need, you can always find another person to give you just that one thing. It’s not as difficult as it sounds once you comfortable with talking about the sex you’re about to have.

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How to Play in Public

There are lots of different fantasies that revolve around playing in public. There are also lots of different reasons as to why you might it. It might be the thrill of showing off your hook up to strangers. It could also be the fear of getting caught. No matter what the reason for liking it is, there are a few different ways that you can do it. If you talk to your hook up about it beforehand, you can spend the entire night playing in public. The best part of it all is that no one will know what’s really going on.

Interactive sex toys

The first, and one of the most satisfying ways, of playing in public is with interactive sex toys. These are remote controlled toys that you can set off with a remote or your phone. All you have to do is get her to wear them under her clothes. These toys come in all shapes and sizes. Some of them are designed to vibrate her clit while other slide deep in her vagina to work her G-spot. No matter what kind you go with, you’ll be able to give her an orgasm in the middle of as many people as you want and no one will see a thing.

Car fun

The second way is just to play around in the car. The trick of it is to get a blanket of jacket that covers her entire body. Then you just get her totally naked in the passenger seat next to you. You can drive around with one hand while her finger her the entire with the other. What makes it so exciting is that anyone can pass by you and see her face while she’s right in the middle of an orgasm. If you really want to take things to the next level, you can pull up next to someone and ask for directions while your fingers are feverishly working her clit right across from them. If you can make her start to cum while you’re still talking to them then you might just be introducing her to a brand new fetish. There’s nothing quite as satisfying as having a hook up that’s always begging you to take her for a ride just do you can finger fuck her in public. You’ll have a whole new hobby that you can enjoy together as a couple!

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How to Keep it Extra Safe

Anyone who hooks up has to worry about getting someone pregnant at some point. It’s always in the back of your mind that you’ll get a call in a few months from someone that you fucked and never really wanted to talk to again. It’s even worse when you don’t actually like the person, but still want to fuck them. After you get it all out of your system, the worst thing that could happen would be for her to be linked to you for the rest of your life. When you’re about to fuck and you’re not sure if she’s on the pill, here’s how you keep it extra safe.

Use a condom

This is a simple thing to do but too many people never even bother. Condoms just don’t feel as good and that’s a problem. That’s why you should get everything that you can before you put it on. Get her to give you a nice, long blowjob before you pull it out. That’s going to give you more than enough stimulation for the night. You’ll still be able to feel her once you’re inside. It’s just more like standard definition instead of fucking in high definition.

Pull out

Even though you’re wearing a condom, if you want to make sure that you’re extra safe, you still have to pull out. There have been a whole lot of lives ruined by a broken condom at exactly the wrong moment. That’s why you have to pull out. You can make it a lot of fun while you do it. Just pull out and let her jerk you off until you’re finished. She’ll be able to feel your man goo fill up the condom and she might just want to see what it looks like after she dumps it out all over her own boobs.

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How to Keep your Hook up Private

There’s always going to be that girl that you’re hooking up with who needs to keep things private. There are a lot of different reasons why she might need this. She could be in a relationship with someone or she could just need to maintain a public image. Lots of women are afraid of the way they’ll be looked at if people find out that they’re having casual sex. If you need to keep things private then it really doesn’t take that much effort. All you have to do are two really easy things.

Don’t go bragging

The first thing you need to do is just forget about bragging about it. That’s the first thing that too many guys do. You’re having sex with a hot girl and you want other people to know about it. This is where you want to hold back, though. If you talk about it too much then it’s going to end. You’re the one who’s really enjoying having sex with the hot girl. If it stops, none of the people told have to live without it. Just keep your mouth shut and make sure you don’t tell anyone about it.

Don’t text her

The next thing you have to do is stop yourself from treating her like your girlfriend. She’s not. That means you can’t go on texting her all day long. Just keep your talking limited to the times that you’re together and the times that you’re trying to set up a meeting. Other than that, just leave her alone. She can’t talk to you all of the time. Someone will find out what’s happening and that’s the last thing that you want to happen. Just keep your mouth shut and only talk when it’s time to hook up again.