Anyone who spends a lot of time hooking up is going to come across that one girl who wants more at some point. It doesn’t matter how obvious it is that you’re just after a hook up. She’s going to want a relationship and you’re going to have a find a way to let her down. You don’t want to get stuck with one person. That’s why you’re hooking up in the first place. If you want to let her down gently then you just have to touch on two main points and it will work out.
Tell her she’s great
It doesn’t matter if you think she’s great or not. You just have to tell her that is. You have to make her believe it. Pick out some of the parts of her personality that you can tell she likes. Make sure you focus on those things as reasons that she’s so great. She already likes them about herself, so you’re just giving her information that she already believes. You won’t have to go out your way to convince her of it. After you do that and build her up, you can move on to the next part.
Tell Her You’re Terrible
After you spend the proper amount of time building her up, all you have to do now is tear yourself down. Tell her all of the reasons that you’d make a terrible boyfriend. Make sure you focus on the fact that you’d end up cheating on her. Make sure she understands that you can’t keep yourself to one woman. You’ll end up doing something wrong and hurting her and you just can’t deal with that. If she still doesn’t get the hint after all of this, just go ahead and hook up with someone else. She’ll have no option but to move on after that.