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How to get Paid for Hooking up

If there’s one giant misconception out there, it’s that women don’t pay for sex. Nothing could be further from the truth. There are hundreds of women in every area who have paid for sex in the past. These women like doing it and they’re always willing to do it again. If you’ve ever fantasized about getting paid for sex then you can turn it into a reality. You just have to temper your expectations about what that means and make sure that you have a skill that’s actually marketable to women who pay for sex.

You’re not just getting paid to fuck

The first thing you have to realize is that you’re not just going to go out and have a woman give you money in exchange for whatever you think passes as sex. It doesn’t matter how good you think you are. It doesn’t matter how good other women have told you that you are. No one is just going to pay you for your dick. That’s not how it works. Any woman can get any cock that she wants. There’s no reason on this planet that she’s going to spend a single cent on yours.

You need a skill

The thing that women pay for isn’t sex, it’s an experience. The most common reason for a woman to pay for sex is to get a kink or fetish satisfied that she can’t get anywhere else. Most of them are going to be pretty extreme and they can go in any direction. These women can want to be dominated or they can want to do the dominating. No matter what it is that they’re into, it’s just easier to pay someone to get in rather that finding a stranger and hoping they’ll let them do it. That’s why you need to figure out what you’re willing to do and you have to get good at it.

You have to be an expert

The best thing to do is to pick one thing and make it your specialty. You have to be amazing at it. Just think about hiring an electrician. If you’re paying someone to fix your wiring then you want them to know exactly what they’re doing. You want them to get in, do their jobs, and leave. It’s the same thing with sex. If a woman is paying you, she wants you to get in, satisfy her needs with expertise, then leave. It’s that simple.

It’s all grass roots

Once you get your specialty and you’re an expert at it, you have to start advertising. This isn’t exactly something that you can just advertise on Craigslist anymore. The best way to go about is to get on a site like Fetlife or Collarspace. You want to find women with very specific needs who are desperate to get them taken care of. These aren’t going to be the kind of women that you want to have sex with. They’re your first clients. Offer your services to them and see what they say. If they agree, you have to put their looks aside and handle them like you would handle the hottest girl on the planet. It’s that kind of service that she’s going to talk to all of her friends about. That’s where you get your start. It’s all word of mouth and you’ll eventually have women contacting you for your services. Just don’t go into it thinking you’re going to be a high class gigolo. You’re going to spend most of your time paddling obese women who haven’t gotten laid in years. That’s why you’re getting paid.