Hookup Tips

How to Hook up with an Ex

We all have those exes of ours that we’d love to hook up with one last time. The relationship may not have worked, but the sex was amazing. It was got the two of you together in the first place. Now that things are broken off, you probably all those late night fuck sessions. If you don’t miss dealing with all the relationship stuff, but do miss the way they bang, here’s how you go about hooking up with an ex. If you play your cards right, you might just end up with a fuck buddy and none of the drama.

Be completely honest

The very first thing you have to do is be completely honest with them. If you miss sex, then so do they. Take the time to talk to them and let them know that you’re into the idea of just having sex. You’ll know pretty immediately is they’re into it or not. If you can keep the conversation going, just make it clear that neither one of you is going to get anything out of the relationship but physical pleasure. If you get the chance to try it out, make sure you play it cool.

Never text unless it’s to hook up

After that, it’s really just a matter of keeping yourselves as emotionally distant as possible. You never want to bring up the past and you never want to act like you’re back together. This isn’t the person that you text at midnight anymore. The only time you should be sending a message is when you want to hook up. If it all works out, you’ll have a new hook up buddy that you can share some memories with, but never cross the line into relationship territory again.