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How to Hook up with a Vanilla Girl

No matter how much time you really spend hooking up, or what kind of circles you run in, you’re going to end up hooking up with vanilla girls much more often than the kinky ones. This can be a problem if you’re used to the fetishists. If you try to pull the fetish stuff with the vanilla girls then they might just run screaming from the room. You never want that. That’s why you have to know how to hook up with a vanilla girl in a way that makes her happy with it.

Lots of kissing

The biggest thing that these vanilla girls like is lots of kissing. It can get gross. There’s nothing that says you’re supposed to enjoy another person’s tongue in your mouth. Vanilla girls love it, though. It’s naughty to them. It’s also how they show sexual passion. If you’re hooking up with one then you have to be ready for a lot of kissing. It doesn’t matter how little you like it. You just have to suck it up and let it all happen. It’s the only way to keep her into the sex and not make it seem like you’re just in it for her body.

Light spanking only

No matter how much you want to let yourself cut loose, you really have to hold back. You have to hold the kinky stuff to some light spanking and nothing more. You also have to do it as painlessly as you can manage. Just a few easy taps is really as far as you can go here. Not all women associate the pain of a spanking with pleasure and that’s never truer than when you’re with a vanilla girl for the very first time when you’re hooking up.

Jizz in a condom

You’re also going to have to go without a satisfying body shot when it’s time to blow off your load. Vanilla girls aren’t going to want any part of it. They don’t realize how much of a complement it is for a guy to shoot his cum onto them. They’re going to have a problem with you cumming anywhere that isn’t inside your condom. Just make sure that you’re not too deep inside her when you let it go. You never know when you’re going to have a malfunctioning rubber and you never want to get one of these girls pregnant.

It’s up to you

It’s really up to you if you want to deal with all of these limitations. It also depends on how horny you are. It might be worth it for you if you’re really hard up. If you’re only in it to get off then a vanilla girl might be all you need. If you can’t stand it being so bland, though, you might just want to pass them by. There’s always a kinky girl somewhere else that you can find and actually have a good time with, as long as you can wait for them.