If you like a little bit of fetish in your sex then you probably spend a lot of time being less than satisfied. It’s really tough to find a casual sex hook up that’s going to be willing to get into the extreme stuff on your first meeting. Luckily, there are two things that you can do to at least get a little bit of fetish in your hook up life. If you do it well, you might just end up with a regular sex buddy who’s willing to get into the weird stuff with you when you’re tire of vanilla sex.
Find a good site
The first thing you have to do is find a good hook up site. There are a lot of them around and you can find a few that focus on fetish and nothing more. You’ll have to put in more work than a normal site, but you’ll be able to get what you want out of it. Just make sure that you’re on a site where the people are really willing to hook up and are really into fetish. It’s going to be surprising how many fetish hook up sites offer neither.
Talk about it beforehand
No matter where you find your hook up, you want to talk about fetish before you meet up. Let them know what you’re into and find out if they’re into the same things. That’s the best way to go about it. Don’t mince words or dance around the subject. Just be straight forward with what you want and see if the other person bites. It will let you do away with all of the disappointment of hooking up and not getting what you need out of it. Honesty is always best when it comes to casual sex.