There comes a time in every couple’s lives that the people in it want to spice things up. That usually involves bringing someone else into the bedroom. If you’re very lucky, you can be that person they invite in. if you get the chance, you should definitely accept it. Just keep in mind that you should talk about what’s going to happen before you start getting into it. There’s nothing worse than getting naked with two other people and finding out that you all want different things. Here are a few things to consider before the action starts.
Talk about the same sex stuff
The first thing you have to ask yourself is whether or not you want to get gay with the other man in the relationship. You both have to be into it if you do. If you don’t, you have to make that clear. There’s nothing at all wrong with it if you do, just put it all out on the table beforehand. You should also talk about just how far you want to go. Do you just want to try some hand stuff or do you want to go full penetration? That’s what you have to decide.
Separately or at the same time
After that, you have to figure out if you’re both going to be having sex with the girl or if you’re going to go in individually. This is largely up to her and you have to find out what her limits are first. Is she open to DP or does she want to get spit roasted? Does the guy just want to watch the two of you? These are the questions that matter. Figure them out first and you’ll have a fin hook up that everyone will remember for a very long time to come.